Sunday, January 31, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 21

Question: How can I better make the Sabbath a delight?
Answer: 3 Nephi 4:9-10

Interpretation:
*"Because of their joy" = by looking forward to the Sabbath with joyful anticipation (which I am able to do when I am worthy and prepared for the Sacrament and my lesson, see below).
*"Fear their God" = by letting my actions on Sunday be a "sign unto God" of my love for and obedience to Him.
*"They were prepared" = by being physically and spiritually prepared each week (including having my singing time lesson prepared early in the week and reviewed on Saturday night, so I don't need to review it Sunday morning and can instead spend the time before church in scripture study or spending time with my family. Also, repenting nightly so I am spiritually ready and worthy to partake of the sacrament. And having already read the lesson for Relief Society and being ready to participate (as I have made it a goal this year to do).)
*"Fear their God and supplicate Him for protection...in the strength of the Lord they did receive Him" = not fearing my performance in my calling, but trusting in God to help and strengthen me and to make me successful (as I am prepared, knowing I am striving to do His will, so He will bless me).

Verses 31 and 33 were also previous highlighted and also spoke of :
*joyfully recognizing God's goodness and expressing gratitude to Him = by thanking Him for His help with my lessons each week, as well as for my other many blessings, and
*repentance = by being prepared physically and spiritually, and
*humility = by being teachable, and having an open heart, to learn and feel the Spirit at church.

Saturday, January 30, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 20

Question: What does it mean to "walk with God"? This is a phrase that has popped up in my scripture reading several times this month and I was curious to learn more.

Answer: Jacob 4:5-7

My interpretation:
Verse 5: "to be obedient unto the commandments of God"
Verse 6: "search the prophets"=seek His will; "have revelations"=receive His will; "faith becometh unshaken...we truly can (do miracles) in the name of Jesus" = do His will (align our will with His and live His plan for us with faith and hope). So seek, receive, and do God's will.
Then in Verse 7, it tells us how. It teaches that we receive the desire to seek, ability to receive, and strength to do His will through the mercy, grace, and power of God (see also 3 Nephi 14:7-11).
Wanting to learn more, I re-read the verses several times, and Heavenly Father blessed me with further knowledge and understanding as I did. Taking a closer look, I learned....
Verse 5: Having a hope and faith in, and a love and devotion to God (worshipping Him) is what encourages us to seek, find, and do His will.
Keeping the commandments and our covenants points our souls to God and leads us to righteousness.
Verse 6: Reading the scriptures and general conference talks, and seeking and receiving personal revelation, builds our testimonies and faith (until they become unshaken--in the truth of the gospel, and of a knowledge of: the need for commandments and covenants, of God's reality, of the power of the Atonement and how we can use it to change our lives, and of God's love, mercy, and grace).
When we seek and ask, God answers and blesses (see again 3 Ne. 14:7-11).
Verses 5 & 6: Even Heavenly Father is perfectly obedient to His plan, through His offering up HIs Son and honoring His promises.
I felt like this was a true experience of really pondering and feasting upon the scriptures; of pouring over them with an open heart; and of seeking and finding. This is not something I do nearly enough, so it was so neat to experience!

Wednesday, January 27, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 17

Question: How can I show Travis more love?

Answer: 2 Nephi 15:1-2

My interpretation:
Verse 1:
"Sing to my well-beloved a song of my beloved"= praise, acknowledge, and verbally sincerely express love to him.
"Touching" = express love more through physical touch (one of his primary love languages)
Verse 2:
Intentionally nourish him through well-planned quality time (including date nights), full listening ears (again, some of his primary love languages), and serving him in meaningful ways (considering his needs).

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 16

Yesterday afternoon, I had listened to both "Yielding Our Hearts to God" and "What Lack I Yet?" from this last General Conference in the car as I was running errands. Both talks suggested asking God to let us know how we can improve, so I decided to make that my question for this morning:
Question: What can I do to improve?

Answer: Index: Abinadi

My interpretation:
To boldly share the gospel with family and others, as Abinadi did. He was commanded to prophesy of Christ's salvation and Atonement, of Christ as our Redeemer, of the Resurrection and judgment, and to teach the commandments.
The Index also spoke of Abinadi being protected by the Spirit, which I interpreted as God promising to bless me with His Spirit to know who I can share the gospel with and what I can say.
This was interesting, since yesterday, in the Friend, I had read the kids an article (from President Eyring) which counseled us to pray daily to be led to someone who is prepared to receive the Gospel, and I knew then that that was something I wanted to make a goal of doing.
I also realized that one of my previous daily questions--about how I could help Bethany feel loved and secure--also talked about me testifying of the Gospel plan to her, so I believe today's answer includes that as well.
While listening to "What lack I yet?" today, a quote stuck out to me, and I felt prompted to include it in the enrichment lesson I was giving tonight. I realized after the lesson that the quote had prompted me to also bear my testimony of Christ's Atonement, plan, and willingness to help us, just as the answer I had received this morning had counseled! It was neat to see how quickly God had given me an opportunity to obey His will, just as He did on the day that He counseled me to testify of God's plan to Bethany.

Another answer came through the voice of another presenter at tonight's Enrichment: show more love to your children. This was the answer the presenter had received, and when I examined my heart, it was something I needed to do as well.

Monday, January 25, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 15

Question: What should be our ultimate goal as individuals and families?
(I wanted to have this firmly in mind as I further develop our family mission statement as well as my own personal mission statement.)
Answer: Just after I prayed, Bethany woke up and needed to go potty. As I was waiting in the bathroom for her to finish, I decided to read the sticky notes I had taped to the bathroom mirror, which read "What is God's plan for my life?" then these telling words from other notes, like "Kingdom of God," "eternal life," "exaltation", and finally "the goal is an eternal family." The Spirit warmed my heart as I read the last line, and I realized that THAT is my ultimate individual and family goal--to have an eternal family. Each time I'm faced with a choice now I can ask myself "Will this action lead to life forever with my family and with God?" "Does this use of my time or attitude lead to an eternal family?" and then act accordingly.

Sunday, January 24, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 14

Question:
Last night I came home from the evening session of our church's Stake Conference, initially inspired, and then...totally overwhelmed. It felt like between the inspiration I was receiving recently to improve from my daily questions, Ensign article reading, reading of A Heart Like His and The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, and now Stake Conference, there was just SO SO much good, but overwhelming improvement that I needed to make. The progress that I HAD made over the past couple weeks was forgotten, and I cried, overwhelmed with my feelings of inadequacy and defeat. Travis, in an effort to comfort me said quietly "It's ok to be happy with yourself you know." So today I decided that that would be my daily question: "Heavenly Father, help me feel your acceptance and approval of me (my efforts), and to be able to recognize the things that I AM doing right."

Answer:
I then began reading where I had left off in my personal daily study in the Book of Mormon, New Testament, and reviewing my weekly ponderize scripture.
3 Nephi 13 spoke of helping the poor. I recognized as I read that I DO have a tender heart for those in need, and that I DO my best to serve those in my ward and community who need my help. It also spoke of prayer, and I HAVE been making a conscious effort since the beginning of the  year to be more fervent in my prayers, both personal and family.
Then in Acts 23, Jesus speaks to Paul in vision and says "Be of good cheer." As I pondered this, it felt like Heavenly Father telling ME to be comforted. That my works and deeds ARE acceptable before Him, and that He approves of me.
Then as I pondered Mosiah 5:15, I realized that, like this scripture counsels, I DO strive to be diligent and obedient--that I truly DO SO desire to learn and do God's will, even if I am weak and unsuccessful at times--and to serve my fellowmen (through acts of service, participating in family history and temple work, and sharing the gospel). This scripture then speaks of being Christ's people and receiving exaltation. Again, as I pondered these words, I felt as if Heavenly Father was telling me that I AM acceptable before Him (worthy to be called His people) and that I AM doing what I need to do to receive exaltation and eternal life (that He approves of my offerings of obedience, and that I am on the right track--something I had heard months ago in a priesthood blessings I was given). It was like I read later today in A Heart like His, experiencing "His affirming, supporting, comforting, encouraging, nonjudgmental, empowering, enabling, encircling love."
Then later this morning, as I was listening to a general conference talk on the way to Church, I heard this basic message: that as we follow Christ's example, love God, and serve others, we are acceptable before Him. So...press forward in faith.
Virginia Pearce, in A Heart Like His, also shared a story in my reading today about a time when she had experienced similar feelings of inadequacy and being overwhelmed in the face of several impending deadlines and responsibilities. As she broke down in tears, the voice of a dear friend came clearly to her mind "Of course you can do it, Virginia! Of Course you can!" Reflecting on this later, I realized that this was Heavenly Father telling me as well "You can do it Jenny! Of course you can!" (When I ask you to do something, I open the way for you to accomplish it! 1 Nephi 3:7, as I had been reminded of at the evening session of Stake Conference last night). "You CAN do the work I call you to and become the person I know you can be!"
So I will move forward in faith, striving to do what I have been inspired to do a little more each day, and become more and more the person He knows I can--and want to--be.

Saturday, January 23, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 13

Question: What should we add to our family mission statement (a paragraph that reflects our family's values, goals, and focus). This is something that we want to create as a family, that we feel will give us greater commitment to each other and to achieving our family's goals.

Answer: 3 Nephi 7:23-26 and Ether 6:4, 17
These scriptures speak of repentance and baptism= so repent daily (perhaps generally say you're sorry) and keep baptismal covenants (take Christ' name upon us (follow His example and repent daily), keep the commandments/CTR, and always remember Him (pray always); again, all of these things are how we center our lives on Christ).
Then, when I asked for further ideas, I turned to Ether 6 and saw these highlighted verses. Verse 4 speaks of commending ourselves unto the Lord (committing to do/submitting to God's will). And verse 17 speaks of walking with God and receiving divine guidance and revelation (again, doing His will and following in His footsteps. Perhaps also being humble, teachable, living worthy of and being open to the companionship and promptings of the Spirit, and having faith that God hears and answers our prayers).
I feel like these answers are a good start, and I look forward to receiving power and greater family harmony and effectiveness from it as we recite our finished mission statement together each morning.

Thursday, January 21, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 11

Question: How can I feel more gratitude (live daily with an attitude of gratitude so I can feel greater joy and peace)?

Answer: 3 Nephi 16:16-20 and Tia's inspiration.

My interpretation:
Yesterday, after I had decided to ask this question today, I read Tia's 30 Day Challenge post, which spoke of "soaking in God's goodness--to notice, explore, appreciate, and delve into His goodness (blessings) and presence (tender mercies and Spirit) in my life." The Spirit helped me recognize as I read this that it could be part of my "gratitude" answer--noticing and appreciating the presence of His Spirit, answers to prayers, and the blessings I have that come from God each day. She also said that the prerequisite for this was humility and keeping the commandments (which I realized would help me to recognize and appreciate the presence of the Spirit and my blessings, as well as to qualify to have the Spirit with me each day).
The scriptures I was guided to then echoed Tia's inspiration.
Verse 16: "give unto this people...inheritance" = Heavenly Father blesses us with so much (and truly desires to bless us with His inheritance one day).
Verse 18: Suggests seeing the hand of God in my life and lifting up my voice in prayers of gratitude.
Verse 19: 2 things. First, socking in--really feeling--His goodness in my life, letting His love wash over me and FEELING gratitude for it (and not justifying it or brushing it off). Second, I had prayed to have gratitude so I could feel joy and peace, and this verse speaks of "joy and comfort."
Verse 20: Counsels to see God's hand and blessings in my life, including His salvation.
Ch. 17 heading: Suggests praying to recognize manifestations of His love (His tender mercies and blessings towards me) and to continue to feel gratitude. Maybe also to ponder His promises and be able to recognize their fulfillment (blessings) as I choose the right.

Something I read in the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People last night I believe also applies to this. It talked about not being so efficiency focused, so we can "have opportunities to develop rich relationships, to meet human needs, and to enjoy spontaneous moments on a daily basis." I feel like being efficiency focused is exactly what I am right now and need to change, and that doing so will help me greater experience the joy of living the gospel (that I will have multiple daily moments with family and friends in which I feel joy and thus gratitude. And that feeling gratitude--recognizing the blessings I AM receiving for living the gospel--will bring me joy, and help me feel like the gospel truly is working wonderfully for me).

Wednesday, January 20, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 10

Question: How can I "lay my burdens at His feet and bear a song away" (give up my control and submit to His will, so I can no longer life in fear, but in faith and joy)?

Answer: 2 Nephi 23:11-12

Interpretation:
*Punish wicked= Keep His commandments
*Arrogance and haughtiness to cease and be laid down= be humble (have faith in and accept Christ's Atoning grace as well as God's love and willingness to help me. Recognize that I NEED His help, then desire and seek it).
*Make a man more precious than gold= Have faith and trust in God's ability to magnify me through His help and Grace (to become who He knows I can be), and to trust in His promise to help/keep/preserve those who are faithful unto Him (have faith in Him and keep His commandments and covenants).
This question came from inspiration I received 2 days ago through reading "That They Do Always Remember Him" (Oct 2015), that I need to place my burdens of fear, doubt, and need for independence and control at the Savior's feet and trust that He is always with me and will help/prosper/bless/watch over me and allow things to work together for my good if I have faith and trust in Him.
I then had a tender mercy yesterday as I was listening to the radio, and heard these words of a song:
"You're fighting, chained by control (bound under a burden of anxiety and fear because of my lack of faith and my need for control), there is freedom in surrender (to God's will), lay it (my control, my will) down and let it go." And then the chorus: "Stop holding on (to control) and just be held (trust in God to safely carry me back to Him as I try to follow Him). It so perfectly described my situation.

Update on January 21:
This morning in my scripture study, I read in 3 Ne. 12:33 that perform=dependability. And though it talked about God being able to depend on me (which is a beautiful thought), I was also struck with the answer I received yesterday--that I need to depend on God, having trust in Him to be good on HIs promises of help and blessings if I CTR.
Then at breakfast as I was reading to the kids from the January 2016 Friend, and was on the page of the song "I'll Stand Tall." The lyrics read "David faced the giant with only five small stones. He did not fear. He knew the Lord was near, so David stood tall! Esther prayed for courage before she faced the king. Her faith burned bright. The Lord was on her side, so Esther stood tall. When I face a challenge that's either great or small, I'll show my faith and courage every day, So I can stand tall! I'll stand tall! The Savior is beside me. He's always there to guide me. I do not walk alone. I'll stand tall! His Spirit will direct me, His loving arms protect me. He's on my side, so I can stand tall!" This song perfectly described the answer I received--having faith and trust that God is always with me and will strengthen and protect me.

After breakfast, Grace began singing the song "If I Listen with my Heart" which we've been learning in Primary the last couple weeks. Again, some of the lyrics spoke to me: "But as I search the scriptures I can hear His words of peace....And if I listen with my heart, I can hear the Savior's voice." And I realized that truly, as I have taken this challenge and searched the scriptures for God's answer to my questions each day, I have heard His words of peace and guidance.

Tuesday, January 19, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 9

Inspired by Tia's prompting the other day to spend more time praying specifically for my family members, their needs, and how to serve them, I asked this question this morning:
Question: How can I better serve Bethany (and help her feel secure)?

Answer: Index: "Plain" and "Plan" and Mosiah 27:33-37

Interpretation:
From "Plain"--"Glad tidings are made known in plain terms."
From "Plan"-- "God made plan of redemption known unto man."
So, to speak to her plainly and often about the Plan of Salvation.

Not exactly sure how to go about this, I prayed again for further instruction and was guided to Mosiah 27:33-37.
"Impart consolation"=show greater empathy towards her.
"Confirm faith"= bear testimony to her of God's plan, His reality, and gospel truths often.
"Exhort her to keep the commandments"
"Strive to repair injuries"=forgive her and ask for her forgiveness. Commit to really pay attention to her and to listen with my full attention, as well as spend more time with her and cuddle her more often (which were things I recognized last night that she was giving signals of needing more of yesterday).
Testify of and explain the scriptures to her--helping bring her to the knowledge of the truth and of God.
It was interesting to me that v.37 again mentioned "declaring glad tidings of good" as the Index had.

Then a little while later I experienced a tender mercy. I was reading to Grace and Bethany from the Book of Mormon stories (as we do each morning over breakfast), and I read exactly the page that recounts Mosiah 27--God was handing me a sweet opportunity to bear testimony of God's plan and of the importance of keeping the commandments to them, as He had just counseled me to do. I then asked Bethany for her forgiveness and have made the effort to give her more quality time and attention today. I am grateful for the counsel I received and am hopeful that it will help Bethany feel more love and security.

Monday, January 18, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 8

Question: Should we rent or buy a house in Amarillo?

Answer: Rent. 3 Nephi 27: 7,9,10,13

Interpretation:
I had prayed to know if renting was the right choice, since it seemed to make the most sense (give us a chance to get to better know the area, have more time and money in a few years to find the perfect house, etc. even though there is a house we really like for sale that would give us a much cheaper mortgage).
After opening a couple times to conflicting answers, I said a desperate prayer that Heavenly Father would let me know His will, being willing to choose either path. I then felt prompted to read 3 Ne 27:10, which spoke of being built upon His gospel (acting in accordance to His will. To me, it was saying, if this is the answer, then God will tell me, and He did in v.9&13). Then I read around it at the other previously highlighted verses. Verse 7 speaks of doing whatever we should do in Christ's name and calling upon Heavenly Father. Verse 9 again speaks upon calling upon (praying to) Heavenly Father, that He will answer, and says that we ARE built upon His gospel (His answer is His will). And verse 13 speaks of giving us His gospel (answer), and of Christ doing the will of the Father (Again, that this answer IS God's will).
After I finished studying this, I began reading in my personal daily study, and there in Acts 22:10, it also spoke of going and doing what we are appointed to do.
3 Nephi 12:19-20, also from my daily reading, mirrored my experience in wrestling for my answer today. I had to repent of my lack of faith (in God to lead me to the right answer) and express gratitude for His goodness in answering my "30 day challenge prayers each day," then humbly come to Him in prayer, pleading that He would give me His answer and being willing to act, before I could receive my answer.

Sunday, January 17, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 7

Question: Am I really Heavenly Father's daughter and does He truly love me? (As inspired by Sister Wixom's Oct 2015 General Conference talk that I had listened to the day before).

Answer: YES! 3 Ne 27:20-21, 9
Verses 20 and 21 spoke of God's commandment and gospel, which are eternal truths, just as my divine nature as a beloved daughter of God is true.
Then I looked over at highlighted verse 9, which speaks of calling on the Father (who is also MY Father).
My prayer was further answered as I recorded my experience from the baptism I attended last night and thought of the words of the songs that had touched my heart there.
"A Child's Prayer" says "Pray, He is there, speak, He is listening (ask my daily question), you are His child, His love now surrounds you." He hears your prayers, He loves the children." (He heard your prayer and He want's you to know that you ARE His child and He LOVES you.) As I remembered this, I felt a warmth in my chest, realizing that that was exactly what I had been praying to know, and that I had received a direct answer to my prayer.
Then, I thought of "How Great Thou Art", which says "And when I think, that God His Son not sparing, sent Him to die...that on the cross, my burden gladly bearing, He bled and died to take away my sins." Powerfully last night as I sang this song, but also this morning, I felt of Heavenly Father and Jesus' love to do those unimaginably loving and great things for me. It struck me that Christ DID take away my sins--that He suffered so I wouldn't have to, and that I CAN repent and TRULY be forgiven.  President Nelson's words that I read in my Ensign daily study today echoed this truth: "I bear witness of the reality of the Lord Jesus Christ and of His redeeming, atoning, and sanctifying power." He truly can forgive and cleanse me.
As if that wasn't enough, I continued to receive tender mercies as witnesses of God's love throughout my time at Church today. Both of the talks that were given in primary spoke of God's love, as did the Relief Society lesson, which said "The knowledge that God lives, that we are His children, and that He loves us soothes the troubled heart" and "He (Christ) loved them and cared for them."
I was so grateful for ALL of His tender mercies towards me today. Truly, Father in Heaven is my Father and loves all of His children so much.

Saturday, January 16, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 6

Question: How can I center my life on Christ?

Answer: Ether 3:1-4

Interpretation:
Verse 1--By asking God to bless my efforts and actions (before I take them). Do His will and keep His commandments. (see also 2 Ne 32:9)
Verse 2--By praying always.Verse 3--By recognizing and showing gratitude for His mercies and blessings to me.
Verse 4--By having faith in His willingness and ability to bless me (in doing His will). ("Oh Lord...Thou hast all power and can do whatsoever Thou wilt for the benefit of man.")

The answer I received reminded me of the sacramental covenant--that we keep His commandments, always remember Him (which we do by praying always for help and in gratitude), and take His name upon us (strive to be an example of Him, by living and loving with an open heart as He did). I think it is intentional on God's part that we re-commit to these covenants each Sunday, as a weekly reminder of how we can center our lives on Christ.

Friday, January 15, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 5

Question: Should I go to Time Out For Women with Travis' sisters this year?

Answer: "Faculty" in the Index and Alma 27:27...

My interpretation: The definition spoke of "bretheren" = Travis' sisters; "arouse faculty of souls" = that it would be a spiritually uplifting experience (as I was telling Heavenly Father in my prayer I hoped it would be and that I could use); "peace" = positive answer (which is one way that I asked Him to let me know if this was the right choice).

Knowing I would need a very clear confirmation that is is the right thing for me to go (since there isn't a lot of wiggle room in our budget with our upcoming move and work expenses), I prayed for confirmation that it was indeed a yes, and opened to Alma 27:27, which reads "I will go and inquire of the Lord, and if He say unto us go down unto our bretheren, will ye go?...yea, if the Lord saith unto us go, we will go down unto our bretheren....therefore let us go down and rely upon the mercies of our bretheren."

The answer could not be more clear that I should go and attend the conference with Travis' sisters ("bretheren"). I was so grateful to Heavenly Father for so quickly and directly answering my prayer.

Question #2: I had considered praying on Day 6 about how to overcome my emotional connection with food. But as I experienced above, Heavenly Father answered my unspoken prayer through the Ensign article I was prompted to read that day ("Be an example and a light" by President Monson from the October 2015 General Conference.)

Answer: President Monson said "We are to be pure, which means that we are clean in body, mind, and spirit. We know that our body is a temple, to be treated with reverence and respect....In order to have the Holy Ghost as our constant companion, we must be worthy. Brothers and sisters, purity will bring us peace of mind and will qualify us to receive the Savior's promises. Said He, 'blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God.'"
This led me to think about the Word of Wisdom, which counsels us to feed our bodies with fruits, vegetables, and grains (a plant-based diet that I had been debating for several days about adopting).

My interpretation:
Clean of body= filling my body with wholesome "herbs" and "fruits of the vine"--vegetables, fruits, and legumes--and grains (especially those that are in season, and in variety and balance, so that I can get all my essential vitamins and minerals).
Treating my body with reverence and respect= eating a plant based diet, getting sufficient sleep (from 10PM to 6AM each night), and having regular exercise (at least 4 days a week). I have long had an emotional attachment to food, particularly sugar. A "treat" has long been my "emotional reward" at the end of each day, and something I have enjoyed during my quality time with Travis each night. Instead of still having the perspective that not having sugar is depriving myself (as the world would have me believe and I have been tempted to continue to believe as well), this quote tells me that I can instead make a choice out of self-love and self-mastery to treat my body with reverence and respect, and honor it by filling it with body and soul revitalizing food. This paradigm shift is just what I have needed and been searching for, to give me the strength to make the changes in my diet that I have felt I needed.
I believe doing these things will give me peace of mind and conscience, and bring me the blessings promised in the Word of Wisdom (health, wisdom and great treasures of knowledge (even hidden treasures), strength and endurance (in my daily activities), and being spared from the destroying angel (not die from "poor" diet-induced diseases)) as well as the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost (as I keep myself pure in other ways as well). Since I have been suffering from a lack of energy for some time now, these blessings are just what I am desperately hoping to achieve.
Brother Costa said in his recent conference talk "I believe the Lord has His own timing as to when to give revelation unto us" and I believe that's true. Heavenly Father waited until I was humbled and desperate and ready to change, and when He had already given me a change of heart to no longer want to eat sugar (this past week), to give me this counsel, so that I could be ready to act on it. Now we're just weeding out the dairy, eggs, and sweets in our house and making a plan for change. Do I still struggle with the temptation to eat treats or feelings of deprivation at times? Yes, but as I move forward in faith and see the blessings that come from obedience to the prophets' inspired counsel, I believe I'll receive increasing strength and self-mastery in the food choices I make.

FIrst Snow Fun

We finally got our first snow (not that Travis and I were complaining) earlier this week, but with temperatures in the teens and twenties until yesterday, we didn't get a chance to get out and play until this morning.

The girls were so happy to play outside in the snow!
 

"Running!" cried Kaylee as she took off across the yard.


After several weeks of not playing out back, they were happy to get reacquainted with their toys and terrain.

 
 Cambree loved climbing up the "mountain" (aka tree stump). "Hooray! I did it!"
 

Oh how I love that sweet smile!

The girls loved helping Travis make our "Olaf" snowman.

 
 Cambree getting in on the action...


....and Kaylee too:


 


Bethany helping put on his nose:
 
Kaylee and Cambree both voluntarily gave him hugs. They instinctively know that Olaf likes warm hugs I guess. ;) 

"We did it!"

Proud creators (aka resident Elsa's):



Bethany had tons of fun having snow ball fights with Travis and I:





 

 
 
 
 
So happy for a random day off for Travis and some snow family fun! 

Cambree & Kaylee's 2nd Birthday

Kaylee and Cambree begain their 2nd birthday by getting lots of beauty rest, and sleeping in. :) Now, that's my kind of way to start a birthday. ;) After waiting for them to wake up for about an hour, we eventually (because Grace and Bethany were so excited to see their sisters and for them to have their special breakfast) woke them up.
I remembered how much Cambree loved monkey bread ("donuts") last time we had it, so monkey bread, bacon, and canned pears (their favorite fruit) for breakfast it was.
 

They (Cambree especially) thought it was SO neat to have balloons on their chairs, and they kept turning around and playing with the balloons during breakfast.

 After breakfast, they got dressed in their new birthday outfits and had more fun playing with balloons.
(Kaylee L, Cambree R)


Cambree

Kaylee

 
We watched some Elmo movies my parents had given them for their birthday, then headed to Burger King for lunch. Chicken nuggets are one of their favorite lunches and they love the play place at Burger King, so Burger King it was for the traditional "eat out birthday lunch."

They had lots of fun wearing the crowns and playing in the play place with Bethany and Grammy.

Kaylee loves French fries, and likes to graze eat them while she plays. ;)

Both Kaylee and Cambree love brownies, cookies, and ice cream, as well as princesses just like their big sisters, so homemade brownies with oreo ice cream and Frozen decorations was the birthday dessert of choice.

We had a pizza party (as per family tradition) with my parents for dinner. Pizza is definitely a dinner favorite around here.

Singing "Happy Birthday" with us to them after dinner. :)

Blowing out the candles took lots of tries and lots of near burns, but they eventually got it...

and we all cheered!

They very happily dug into their brownie and ice cream, even asking for seconds. :)

Cambree and Grace are good buds.

After dinner, we skyped Dave and Anita and opened presents.


We got them a Blues Clues movie (one of their favorite TV shows), the Baby Signing Time DVD collection (their favorite series and a GREAT learning tool), and a play food set.

Grace and Bethany loved helping them open their presents.


Sampling their new toys. :) (Cambree L, Kaylee R)

Kaylee sporting her and Cambree's new matching pjs.

We sure love our two little sweeties and can't believe they are already two! So glad these sweet surprises joined our family 2 years ago! We love you so much Kaylee and Cambree! Happy birthday sweet peas!

Thursday, January 14, 2016

30 Day Challenge: Day 4

Question: How can I be a better Zumba instructor?

Answer: I accidently forgot to write down the scripture reference before I closed the scriptures, but it was the account of Abinadi asking the wicked priests of Noah what they teach the people and rebuking them for not teaching the gospel.

My interpretation:
Again, to do those things that God has already inspired me to do (over the last several months). The last two days, as I've formulated in my mind the question I plan to ask the next day, throughout the day God has given me inspiration to answer my questions! Although I have prayed about these topics in the past, even recently, I have not always searched for answers in the scriptures directly after doing so. These tender mercies--that He wouldn't even make me wait to officially ask to begin to answer my question--were a testimony to me of God's eagerness and willingness to bless me, and of His great love.

Wednesday, January 13, 2016

2015 Family Newsletter


Holloway Family Newsletter 2015
 
 
Travis: Is halfway through his final year of residency, and will graduate in June of 2016--hooray! We are excited for him to be a licensed Doctor of Podiatric Medicine (Dr. Trav ;) ) and for him to join his brother Brandon’s growing practice in Amarillo, Texas.  It’s sad to think of leaving the friends, familiarity, and beauty of Ohio, which has been our home for the past 6 ½ years, but we are excited for warmer weather and the new adventures that Heavenly Father has in store for our family in Texas. Travis accomplished some amazing feats in his hobby of ultra marathon running this year. He completed his first 100 mile race in May (at the Outrun 24 hour race in Kirtland), which was especially impressive since he ran it almost entirely without a pacer. He also ran YUTC (Youngstown’s 50K trail race) for the 4th time in September, and the Palo Duro 50K race in October, which was his fastest trail 50K yet! He currently serves in the Elder’s Quorum Presidency in our ward.
Jenny (I): Was proud to achieve her goal of teaching Zumba classes this year, and is currently teaching one class a week at the local YMCA, which is a great opportunity for her to grow both physically and spiritually. She enjoys exploring ways to improve her nutrition, trying new recipes and foods, and being active, especially through walks with her family, jogs on the local trails, yoga, and dance. She will greatly miss the walking trails behind our home, and the neighbors she interacts with there, as well as the wonderful members of our ward when we move next summer.  Jenny loves helping out with Grace and Bethany’s school parties and is a room mom in Grace’s classroom. She is currently serving as the Primary Chorister in our ward, and loves that she gets to sing with her girls and share her testimony with the kids in the ward through her calling.

Grace (6): is in the first Grade, and loves being a bigger kid on campus. At parent teacher conference this past fall, her teacher told us that she is a smart student, a hard worker, and a pleasure to have in class. Her favorite classes so far are art and library. Grace loves to draw, especially pictures of people, houses, and scripture stories, and to make cards for loved ones, which we all appreciate. She also enjoys reading, and is reading at almost a 3rd grade level. Grace loves to sing and dance, especially to Frozen songs. She is currently a CTR 6 in primary, and loves to sing and participate there. Above all, she is a thoughtful and caring daughter and big sister.
 
Bethany (4): is in her first year of preschool. She loves drawing on the dry erase board there, singing the songs in circle time, and going to gym class and swim lessons. Bethany is currently learning to write her letters and numbers, and impresses her teachers with how much she already knows. Bethany loves creative play, especially with her Little People toys and kinetic sand. She also enjoys going to the park and playing with her sisters and friends. And she loves to be silly, dress up, snuggle, play at Grammy’s house, and watch her favorite tv shows. Bethany is a wonderful “little mommy” to her twin sisters and is a kind sister and friend.

Kaylee (2): is our content little sunshine. Her smiles and giggles are infectious, and her patient nature is a calm presence in our home. She loves to color, read, watch Blues Clues, Sesame Street, and Signing Time, wear shoes, and snuggle. Some of her favorite things to do right now are to repeat what we say, identify shapes, count, and play with magnetic blocks and shape sorters.  She also loves to sing, dance, play at the mall, and make new friends.
 
Cambree (2): is our determined sweetheart. She can often be found giving her family “loves” (hugs), especially when they come home or after nap time. She also loves to sing, dance, read books, watch tv, and snuggle. She enjoys playing with Little People, baby dolls, play food, and shape sorters. She loves to play outside, get back rides, and play with her sisters too. She is a great conversational talker, and makes us laugh with the cute things she says and ways she says them.
 
We look forward to a year even better than the last in 2016, and hope that 2016 is filled with peace, progress, and joy for your family too!
Love,
Travis, Jenny, Grace, Bethany, Kaylee, and Cambree Holloway